10.05.2010

Pink Boots

From time to time I write about my friend Ruthie, or as Riley calls her, "RuFie"! I got an email yesterday with the picture above attached. Ruthie just got hired to decorate a cottage style restaurant where she now lives, in Clearwater, Florida. I know she hasn't been too happy at a little antique place she has been in. What is so cool about this opportunity for Ruthie is that she gets to pick out paint color, decorate and accessorize and sell her merchandise as well! I'm so excited for her, and can "hear" the excitement in her words as she writes me. And the woman that hired Ruthie, must be a pretty good business woman herself because she hired the perfect person for the job! What was so special about this picture of the pink boots is because it reminds me of the little pair of children's rain boots above. There is no need in dragging up the past and a not so good time for my sweet friend, so I won't go into details. Ruthie use to live with her daughter, Susan, here in Old Towne Orange. Ruthie was an awesome dealer in my store and I KNOW many of you remember her "Back Door Cottage" part of Country Roads. The last building by the back door. She was there for years, and when she left, I understood why, but wow, I hated to see her go and it just left such a void in my life if that makes sense. Back to the little boots above. Ruthie and her daughter had a falling out, and Ruthie went to live in her condo in Florida, never realizing she would never return to the house she shared with her daughter. Susan ended up selling the house, and had an estate sale. I couldn't bring myself to go to the estate sale, too many memories of my friend Ruthie were there. But one of dealers went, and bought the pair of little green boots, which in turn I bought from her. Why? Because we use to have "Operation Sell" meetings at Ruthie's house. We would get together and talk about different marketing ideas and at each and every meeting, Ruthie would have those little boots above on her dining table with fresh cut flowers. So, I know you can see why those little boots are now AT my house!
I love Ruthie's wisdom and knowledge. We send each other little quotes we come across that we know are good and are appreciated. I've never met someone with such a good head on their shoulders. And I'm so, so happy that when she made her permanent home in Florida she learned to email, send photos, and even set up her own Facebook page! Ruthie rocks! There are days I'll come home tired, and dragging from working so hard. And when I go to get the mail, there will randomly be a little book she has sent me, or a book mark with the word "HOPE" on it. You see "hope" is a word Ruthie and I are both very fond of. This is a picture of my Ruthie! Her and her daughter Susan have made amends which makes me happy. Susan moved to Ohio, and had her mom come out and help her decorate her new home. It's kind of bittersweet in that when Susan sold her home in Old Towne, but the couple that bought it shop at Country Roads. I can't think of their names right now, but the husband LOVES to garden, and Ruthie had a killer garden at the little cottage on Harwood. The wife, Sherry comes in to shop and the last time I saw her she told me that if Ruthie ever comes to visit, it would be her honor to meet her. That is the kind of woman my Ruthie is. The picture above is of Ruthie and her three grown kids. They had a family reunion not too long ago at Susan's house. I know that made my friend very happy, especially to get time to spend with her grandchildren. I don't know why, but today I really miss Ruthie. I miss seeing her at Country Roads and being a part of all that goes on there. In November my Ruthie will be 80 years old! Let me tell you, those are just numbers because she is one of the wisest, creative and strong women I know. I can only dream of growing into the kind of person "RuFie" is! She is the best, trust me on that one.

11 comments:

Amy said...

Okay I will start by sayin this is the sweetest post and we could all use a RuFie in our lives!
You are lucky to have such a strong influence in your life.
Next some how I missed yesterdays post and I have to say forget the Rosebowl next time I am in town I am headed to Bryces Booth upstate.
I am dying over his creations and that glass front metal cabinet, OMG
love it!!
I am sure it sold fast
Take care and thanks for the inspiration and sharing such fabulous photos all the time for me to drool over
Amy
PS it is in the 70s today, YAY!

One Cheap B*tch said...

Such a cute idea!

Jeanine

Kate said...

What a gem Rufie is!!! such a touching and precious post. It sure warmed my heart on this dreary day. Thank you again for such heart warming posts that remind us the real meaning in life how we touch others.

Have a wonderful day

xo
Kate

Annie Louise said...

Sweet post. Ruthie sounds like a wonderful woman. Not only are you lucky to know her, but judging from all your wonderful posts, and what you do for Country Roads, and various charities, she is lucky to know you. Take care,
Jeanette

trash talk said...

You and Rufie are proof positive about the old saying "birds of a feather"! Sweet post by a sweet lady.
Debbie

Maureen said...

It's good that mother and daughter are back in touch. After all, life is short.

A Cottage Muse said...

Hi Sue ~ sounds like you and Rufie are kindred spirits! Lovely post today! I hope you share some photos of her project in Florida!!

Blooming Rose Musings said...

The words "Kindred Spirits" kept going through my mind as I read your post. I see A Cottage Muse had the same feelings. This is a wonderful post about a wonderful friendship. I am so happy you have those little green boots!

Nice and Easy Antiques said...

You both are very fortunate to have each other!

Mandi said...

I miss RuFie and her Back Door Cottage! Had chatted with her and bought many fabulous finds from her over the years. Lovely story, so glad it turned out nice on so many levels...her finding a place she loves, reconciling with her family, and a loving family to tend to her gardens.

A beautiful tribute to her, thank you for sharing it with us!

Rebecca said...

I just think those pink boots are super cute!!!!